How to find out what's important

Elimination.  Think of all the lies and mis-truths we tell ourselves, and each other every day.  Capers, everything is a caper.  It's not "You're pretty would you go on a date with me?"  It's 'i'll b @ bar if u wanna'.  That's a caper? I just happen to be here?  Yeah right? Nothing to do with this text or wanting to spend time with you?  Just random?  See a caper.  That's one tiny thing.


That is a caper at our-self and her (or him or they).  Capers all day, every day.  Well not all day.  So, make list, each item is likely a caper or not, eliminate the capers in context, and what's left, that's what's important.


samakjo, how do we get rid of the capers?